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( Aug. 28th, 2011 12:48 am)
B. and I decided to spend the hurricane in the Berkshires. Where better to be potentially stranded than with good friends :) We're staying with the always gracious [personal profile] starfish and osirusbrisbane. Tonight was great! One particularly lovely moment was sitting in the outdoor hot tub under a tree and the night sky watching firespinning.


Totally unrelated: links from P.

Ponycorns! IDEK.

Dr. Who Kid A kindergartener decided he wanted to give the Pandorica monologue for his school talent show.
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Five Things:

1. I had a wonderful time at my 10-year college reunion this weekend!!! It was fantastic to see everyone and spend time together on campus.

2. Celebrated Father's Day by calling my dad (he and my mom were in the kayak), and playing "father's day olympics" with B.'s family. We played mini-rounds of ten different lawn games (croquet, lawn darts, horseshoes, etc.). It was fun!

3. B. and I had our anniversary Sunday night. We were going to go out but I was so exhausted from the weekend that we stayed in, ordered takeout, and watched The Hangover. It was nice and low-key. He got me lovely gifts: socks (relates to an anecdote the weekend we met), a dvd, and a guidebook for Las Vegas (I do love guidebooks, the planning!, the maps!).

4. I woke up at 4:30 this morning and couldn't get back to sleep because I had such bad heartburn? Weird.

5. A poem for Monday.


since feeling is first

since feeling is first
who pays any attention
to the syntax of things
will never wholly kiss you;

wholly to be a fool
while Spring is in the world

my blood approves,
and kisses are a better fate
than wisdom
lady i swear by all flowers. Don't cry
- the best gesture of my brain is less than
your eyelids' flutter which says

we are for each other; then
laugh, leaning back in my arms
for life's not a paragraph

And death i think is no parenthesis

e. e. cummings
abka: painting of daffodils and pear (Default)
( Apr. 4th, 2011 09:02 am)
It's snowing. IDEK.

(I know it snows in April, but 6 years in the DC/MD area had distanced me from the reality. Oh New Hampshire.)

MJ was awesome this weekend!!! I'm not going to do a detailed con report, but here are some notes. It was tremendous to see so many cool people!!! Wonderful to see old friends, many of whom I did not get near enough time with (and aerye I never got to your room to see Sherlock :( if you have another source let me know?). I also met some very cool new people; one of the great pleasures of cons :) (FYI my journal is not particularly fannish, feel free to friend/defriend at will). I went to some good panels! The vid show was great! The dance party was awesome!!! Jacque's was sparkly and festive!

It was so lovely to be surrounded by my people again. It was a familiarity I haven't had quite enough of since I moved. (Although there were a few people I had hoped to see who didn't attend for a variety of reasons. *hugs* to you.) Yay for brilliant, sparkly, giggly, perceptive, sexy, fannish women! (And B., who is all of the above adjectives, although only sparkly on occasion. I had some reservations about sharing my con-going experience with a partner, but it turned out great. I feel really lucky to be with someone who not only understands, but also enjoys fandom.)

My weekend was restorative, my soul is happy, and I got home in time to do all the laundry for Monday morning :)
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abka: painting of daffodils and pear (Default)
( Mar. 19th, 2011 11:21 pm)
I had dinner with the lovely and talented [personal profile] bayleaf, [livejournal.com profile] misspamela, [livejournal.com profile] giddygeek, and [livejournal.com profile] janet_carter! It was very happy-making (nice-but-way-overly-chatty waitress excepted) although a bit too short.

Here's a poem for you, Verisimilitude by Stanley Plumly.
(Isn't Plumly a great name! He's currently the poet laureate of Maryland.)

like the split sweet heart of an apple? )
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I've been having something of a rough week emotionally. Not sure if I want to write out the whole thing. The short version is: what have I done and what am I going to do now?!? I'm sure you can fill in some of the rest of it.

In good news I have had a relatively indulgent week so far otherwise.

-I went and got a massage, using a gift certificate from B. It was really nice. I had been saving it as a reward and Sunday I went back to the gym after a long absence. I was so sore! The massage therapist really worked on my shoulders and forearms which were all knotted, from the stress and driving I suppose?

-J., a friend at work bought me lunch at the fancy sandwich place I like. (Because I had bought her lunch last week when she forgot her wallet, but still, free lunch!) We had a nice lunch together and even stopped to do a few minutes of clothing shopping on our way back to work. (She needed a black top. I browsed.)

-My boss had given me and E. (another girl at work) gift certificates for manicures and pedicures for Christmas. E. and I decided to go to the nail salon together after work and then out to dinner. It was really nice to chat with her and it felt very indulgent to have someone work on my feet in the middle of the winter. So now I have neutral-pink fingers and blue sparkly toes. Dinner was also good, I had some veal meatball and basmati rice thing that was on special. It was delicious.

-B. bought me Just Dance for the Wii as a surprise. We played it at a friend's house and I remembered how much I liked it. :)

-It's Wednesday and not snowing(!!!) so I got to drive home in the sunshine on clear roads. It was really windy, but still, no snow, ice, or sleety slushy mess on the highway. It was great.
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abka: painting of daffodils and pear (Default)
( Aug. 9th, 2010 12:04 am)
Back from my first Vividcon!

The weekend was really good, although a little overwhelming. I'm not sure if I'm going to write a full con report. In short: I saw lots of awesome vids, met some cool people, and had a good time. I approached the con as someone who was pretty new to vid analysis. I was pretty quiet overall, but I was less overwhelmed than I thought I might be? I guess I shouldn't be surprised that my professional training overlapped quite a bit (I am used to looking at things, analyzing, and talking about them). It turns out I can do that even if the pictures are moving and there's music. Plus there were lots of new people there. Still there was *a lot* of visual information (vids, and Friday I played hooky and went to the Art Institute, because I was in Chicago and hadn't been since high school). So a very looking heavy weekend, but a good one! (And Club Vivid was super fun as advertised!)

Hearts and hugs to everyone!
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( Jun. 23rd, 2010 10:56 pm)
So there was a con and it was fantastic. And then back to rl and it has been a week of catch up. Even though I'm sort of caught up, I still feel behind. At least for life in general since the kitchen is a mess and I need to do laundry (and watch SYTYCD). But last night there was "emergency" Peking duck, and tonight there were cards and swing dancing with the boys (D., durdge, and B., Jem is out of town for work).

Unfortunately I'm also feeling nauseous and emotional. Not enough that I think I will actually throw up or cry, but close. I didn't want any dinner (delicious stir-fry) or dessert (and you know I'm sick when I pass up freshly baked chocolate chip cookies). I think the crying might be related to low blood sugar because I haven't been eating? I did have some water crackers and those were fine, but food? Um, no thank you. Ew.

I was planning to do laundry and grade exams tonight, but I think I am going to watch a little tv and go to bed early.

And probably skip the gym tomorrow (which is sad because I didn't go last week. I did make it on Tues. and am super sore so I was looking forward to getting back to my normal routine.)

Ug. At least we're quickly moving towards the 20th c. in class. We start Realism and Impressionism tomorrow and I can teach that with my eyes shut. I know there are people whose favorite period is the 18th c., but I'm not one of them. We moved through it pretty quickly.
In short:

-[personal profile] afrikate and her awesome kitty S. are staying with us. It's really fun. I am a little bummed that they are leaving, but very happy [personal profile] afrikate is getting her new place!

-I now have 8 students in my class and we're past add/drop. This means I get my full salary. Awesome!

-We're doing Renaissance art this week. It's fun.

-Good thing I'm getting paid because I went to this woman's basement in Severna Park MD last week and bought two very expensive bellydance costumes.

-And then brought them to class and were told how much they did not fit properly.

-So I went back today with backup ([personal profile] afrikate and L. from bellydance class) and have 2 different, more expensive, costumes that I hope will be better.

-I am still undecided/ambivalent about performing in the class recital next week at Mem Sahib.

-Two weeks ago I did a 2-day Ravenchase in rural VA. It was pretty awesome. Especially visiting yogaville. That big lotus shrine out in rural Virginia. (We had to run around it looking for information to break our codes, not very yoga-like, still awesome.)

-We also spent way too much time in Farmville, VA. Yeah.

-Last weekend we went to Brooklyn to Come Out and Play.

-There were many awesome games. My favorite was one put on by the Disney imagineers called Unwritten Storybook. We were the elves (complete with ears) and had to join with other groups (royals, outlaws, etc.) to complete tasks (testing out the castle's defenses with a big ball and water balloons, "jousting" with balloons, archery with nerf weapons, etc.). After each battle or event we went back to these tables and filled in storybook pages with our own narrative (eg the elves went to the thief's forest and battled the fairies in an archery contest...) and decorated the pages with stickers and glitter! Games with art and crafts. We have a book. It was awesomely fun and they fed us a tasty lunch feast afterwards. Did I mention the entire event was free. Fantastic.

-We also played:
Shabbat-put! Olympic games, Sabbath rules. (Fun, funner if I had been the fastest, lightest, or strongest of my team.)
Cross My Heart + Hope to Die A game inspired by the labyrinth of Daedalus, set in a life-size maze. (Interesting. Lots of running and confusion, would have been better if the room hadn't been so hot. The maze "walls" were hanging strips of fabric.)
It Lurks in Gowanas. Solve the canals mystery before you're whacked. (A fun mix of using microsoft tag reader, walking to different locations, and a story told through youtube videos, with a little "chose your own adventure" thrown in.)

-Sunday we played The Time Traveler's Knife Brave time travelers take man's first tentative steps into the future, but before they can see the future, they will have to iron out the knots of the past. (Incredible concept, game play could have been streamlined. I had more fun than most of my team because aside from our main mission I was a secret cyborg. I had to meet other cyborgs, and together we brought about the cyborg revolution in 1965).

-The best part of Sunday was being in Green-Wood cemetery. If you're in the area you should totally check it out. Beautiful with lots of famous people buried there as well.

-This weekend I'm going to a family reunion in West Virgina.

-The next weekend it's con.txt (yay!)

-The next weekend is Adam Lambert, although I am only going to 2 of the 3 of the east coast shows that many of my friends are attending.

-The next weekend in July 4th.

-The next weekend is the end of my summer class and mid-July. WTF.

For You: The BP Oil Spill Re-Enacted By Cats in 1 Minute
abka: painting of daffodils and pear (Default)
( May. 23rd, 2010 06:59 pm)
We're having such a nice weekend!

Friday the fantastic [livejournal.com profile] flt (and her van) and I went to the dump to get rid of the hot tub-related junk the bulk trash people didn't take on Thursday. It's the first time the yard's been totally clear in a couple weeks. Then we had yummy thai food :)

Friday night was dinner with [profile] durdge, Jem, and B. who is staying with them for a while. B. is a good cook and we are looking forward to spending more time with him.

Saturday was [personal profile] lightgetsin's party. Congratulations to her! It was great to see a whole bunch of people I don't see often enough!

We also finished the deck. D. put the spindles on and the railing is back up!

Today we had a BBQ. It started off a little damp (we really need a box to store the cushions in), but it cleared up enough to grill some meat (and some non-meat) and play some cards. It was great chatting with everyone.

I did some house and yard stuff this afternoon. Our next big project is finishing removing the big stumps. Our huge, ancient cherry tree has fruit. I guess it really is a cherry. There is was some talk of pie, but how to harvest fruit when it's so tall? (Maybe 40+ feet high? I'm bad with estimating).
We've been spending a lot of time at Home Depot/Lowe's recently. We've acquired a grill, grill accessories, pick axe, wheelbarrow (FYI an assembled wheelbarrow does not fit in our camry), axe, rosemary plant, hose sprayer, and a bunch of other stuff.

Sunday [personal profile] treewishes, Raoul, [personal profile] gnomad, and durdge came over. D. made yummy burgers on the new grill. R. used his impressive arborist skills to cut down the huge dead tree limb that was hanging over our yard. Yay!

We figured out why the tree is dying: the limb was filled with big black ants. Now have lots of firewood and I think need to call a bug guy? The yard is really close to our wooden shed, deck, and house.

That night durdge and I cleaned out the hot tub to prepare for the spa guy. He came this morning. Our hot tub is really old (20+ years) and has frost damage. We could spend a couple of thousand dollars to jury rig a fix, but it might be better to just scrap it and save for a new one. So we have to think about disposal, and what we should do with this dropped down section of the deck which will have a big hole in it. We'll never find a new spa to fit the hole so we could deck it over and put a raised spa there, but there might be better places in the yard to put one. (I think a new spa is not a project for anytime soon, but D. now has his heart set on one, so I guess we'll see.) What else could we do with that weird deck section? Maybe this means we can just rip out the big overgrown bushes that I don't know how to prune?

Suggestions welcome. picture here )

D.'s ankle is better than it was, but it's still uncomfortable for him to walk. My spots are almost better. They're mostly confined to my legs now and slowly healing. I'm still itchy, but I think it's mostly from dry skin. I'm using a lot of lotion, but I'm using a lot less allergy medicine.

Dance!
Depending on who you are I think these DC area Flash Mobs sound like the best thing or the most horrifying thing ever. I'm in the first camp. We might try to do one or two of them. I'm playing with the idea of dropping by Busboys and Poets tomorrow night to check them out. (I think I could easily fake the Jump choreography, it's pretty easy, and I do have a soft spot for Beetlejuice. Help is more intricate and would take more advance practice.) If anyone wants to come by (to dance or just watch) show is 6:30, call is 5:45.
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I had the most awesome weekend ever! One highlight (of many) was during the limo party Sat. night. (This involved renting a limo, getting dressed up, then driving around DC drinking, listening to music, and stopping to take pictures at monuments, and also McDonalds). We pull up to the capital in our Hummer limo (we didn't want a Hummer, but there was a screw up so we just embraced the tacky). The tea party people had been protesting earlier, some of them were still around, and all their signs were in the trash can. So we took their signs, edited them (ripped the "no" off of "No Obamacare" for example), and posed for our picture. There were people speaking outside the Supreme Court (had to go for all the lawyers in our group), but we decided to keep our drunken obnoxiousness to ourselves. The secret service/park police/whichever authority figure was nice enough to let us take the picture.

I paid for my awesome weekend by having the most miserable night ever. Went to bed around 2am and could not sleep for the itching. The benadryl had no effect. Got up several times to try all my anti itch lotions, and even used an ice pack for a while (didn't help). Gave up at 5:30am, took an oatmeal bath (only helped a little), and watched tv until I could nap for a couple hours around noon. So now I'm itchy, exhausted, slightly nauseous (from being overtired), frustrated, and overall yucky feeling. The spots have spread to my forearms and calves. Some of the early ones on my chest are fading, but new ones are still appearing on my breasts. At least there isn't much more of my body it can spread to? (It shouldn't go to my face, and hands and feet would be unusual.) I just want it to stop itching (or respond to something other than drinking which isn't a viable daily option) so I can sleep. What a sad end to a tremendous three days.
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abka: 'nice rock' the curiously mesmerizing sport (curling)
( Mar. 1st, 2010 06:52 pm)
We lost the B-event semifinal game. :( It was ours to loose, we were up 2 in the 6th, then didn't see a potential danger and gave them 4. We got 2 to tie going into the 8th and then couldn't steal. Blech. We had a great time though.

The advantage was that C. and M. made their 4pm flight and I had more time to visit in MA. It was nice to drop by and see everyone!

My drive home was uneventful. Blue skies all the way and I made decent time. Happy to be back home with D. after a fun weekend. :)
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( Jan. 15th, 2010 08:38 am)
Oh I realize I never posted about the end of my epic roadtrip with [personal profile] bayleaf. It was awesome, mostly because it was filled with women like [personal profile] giddygeek, [personal profile] misspamela, and [personal profile] afrikate.

Saturday:
-Worcester art museum with giddy
-afternoon and evening with giddy, bayleaf, and misspamela
-food at Red Robin
-Sherlock Holmes! Slashy and fun.
-dinner at The Citizen. It serves cheese, wine, and chocolate. And brilliant mixed drinks. Genius!
-good evening chat with giddy

Sunday:
-time with afrikate!
-grocery shopping! dinner!
-but mostly laptop party time!
-yay afrikate!

Monday:
-an easy-traffic, good-weather, stress-free drive home :)

I needed this entire trip more than I realized. Thanks everyone.
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abka: painting of daffodils and pear (Default)
( Jan. 9th, 2010 12:38 am)
24 hours in NYC:

-Ethiopian food with old friends
-briefly seeing some (relatively new) girlfriends
-sleep
-brunch at Popovers with lovely women
-another adorable baby (they seem to be a theme during my winter holidays)
-conversation and job advice
-a walk through Central Park
-the Met
-dinner at Mole with fangirls
-drive home
-sleepy email checking with kitty on lap

:)
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( Jan. 6th, 2010 09:32 pm)
tribecon was awesome this year! I am too tired to post details, but here's some random cool stuff (there is plenty that I'm forgetting, this is off the top of my head, in no particular order)

listyness or listiness, I can't decide )

I think I needed this weekend more than I realized and am very happy I went.

Dartmouth folks, I wish we had a similar thing. I miss all of you!

Monday [personal profile] bayleaf and I headed to Niantic CT to see a friend of hers and then to [personal profile] giddygeek's for the night. Yesterday I drove to NH/VT to see family. Last night I hung out with one aunt while she manned the refreshment table at the junior high basketball game, and then we went out to dinner. Today I saw my other aunt and uncle. We met at the place and fed my grandmother lunch (she is doing okay), and then chatted for a bit before I headed south. [personal profile] bayleaf, [personal profile] giddygeek, and I had dinner at an awesome Irish restaurant tonight, so good and I am so full.

Tomorrow we are going to NYC for the night (I hope to see nonemorecomic, grumph, and toran)! Then we are back north to see [personal profile] afrikate, then back home before my spring semester class starts. Whew. :)
Happy Thanksgiving! Love (and muppets!) to you and yours.

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The first part of Ken Burns's new documentary "The National Parks: America's Best Idea" is on PBS today. I just saw it, and would recommend.

We went camping this weekend with durdge and Jem at Shenandoah National Park. We arrived Friday night, it was cool, but fine. We woke up Saturday to gray skies and rain. We made brunch on the camp stove in the rain, then tried for a scenic drive, but the fog was too thick to see anything. We took a short, wet, hike to a waterfall and then retired to the lodge. Drying out by the fire we played cards, ate blackberry desserts, and drank blackberry wine. The rain was heavier, and only getting worse so instead of spending another cold, wet night, we quickly took down the tents and headed back early. We made it to durdge and Jem's around 9:30 and made s'mores and doughboys in their fireplace. It was too bad to miss out on the beautiful scenery (although the fog was very atmospheric), but we had a nice time, and it was good to sleep in my own bed.
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( Sep. 13th, 2009 09:24 pm)
Had a great time at the Renaissance Festival with denis77, [personal profile] axiom_of_stripe, [personal profile] ellen_fremedon, and [personal profile] uschickens.

I had never been to one before, even though we've lived here for five years. It was really lovely. Three of us got there around noon? We shopped, threw some axes, and ate some fried things. [personal profile] ellen_fremedon spent some time choosing a fantastic new hat that is very her. Then [personal profile] uschickens joined us. We listened to the Rogues perform (awesome). There was more shopping (earrings! necklaces! herby things!), and three of us spent a lot of time trying on costumes (guess which three). After waiting patiently for a while D. and C. went off to listen to some more music. There were more food breaks. We tried on tiaras (again mostly three of us did this although we all admired the dragon items). We saw a jousting tournament (awesome! one guy was unhorsed), and three of us took an elephant ride! It was a fantastic day. Great friends, incredible people-watching (codpiece with sparkly man-thong?), fun activities, a good Sunday afternoon.

Pictures here
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abka: painting of daffodils and pear (Default)
( Apr. 13th, 2009 12:35 pm)
We had a lovely holiday weekend. Seder on Thursday at J. and A.'s. D. attended Seder again on Saturday hosted by darthfox, I was sorry to miss it. Sunday I went to church, and then we had Easter brunch at durdge and Jem's. Denis made yummy french toast the way his mother makes it.

My sister sent some photos of Jacob's first Easter with the comment "(you'll have to ask Dexter what happened to the bunny's other leg....)" Dexter is one of the dogs :)

Doesn't seem that I can do pictures here yet, right? Perhaps down the line :)
abka: painting of daffodils and pear (Default)
( Apr. 8th, 2009 04:41 pm)
I had a fantastic time at MJ this weekend. Drove up Thursday night with road-trippers and roommates extraordinaire [livejournal.com profile] wordplay, [livejournal.com profile] sanj, and [livejournal.com profile] ellen_fremedon. We had excellent luck with traffic both ways and there was music-pimpage and good conversation and chocolate.

random, partial list of awesome people from this weekend, not in any particular order, not including previously mentioned awesome roommates, I'm sure there's people I've forgotten (or who's lj name I don't know)  )

Friday )

Saturday )

Sunday )

Panels I attended throughout the weekend: )

In short I had a great time at my 2nd con ever. It was well run, I really enjoyed the squee-filled atmosphere, and definitely felt the love. Can't wait until 2011!
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