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I don't want to give the impression that I'm unhappy in my marriage or that I regret getting married. I'm very happy and I love my husband very much (of course that only gets you so far, just because you love someone doesn't mean it's a good idea to marry them, but regardless I do love him and anticipate loving him for many years), and he's amazing and supportive and patient and wonderful and is working very hard for us and for me, so I can go to school. But just because you're in love with and committed to someone doesn't mean they don't irritate you at (sometimes frequent) times. (The idea was brought up that you're only attracted to people who do push all your buttons because it's some sort of karmic way to force you to work through all your shit.) Ok, my disclaimer is getting off track, but I am happy (even if we're not having sex 8 times a day).
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